The human side of human beings: The theory of re-evaluation counseling

The theory of re-evaluation counseling is deceptively simple, and I believe needs to be naturalised - to become common knowledge so that we can change the way we relate to one another, and in particular, the way we support our children. Belonging to the RC Community however, is not for the faint hearted. It requires a decision to be made at a very deep level to act on our best thinking and not our feelings, and to work together, often through a painful process, to rid ourselves of the effects of past hurts. There are strong guidelines in place to protect this counselling relationship. For example we are expected not to use the relationships to act out our addictions for sex, gossiping, drinking or other such behaviours, however much we want to. This is what makes it hard, and this is what makes it work. If you want to be accountable for your thoughts and behavior, read this, then do it.