Choosing Lovers: Patterns of Romance: How You Select Partners in Intimacy, the Ways You Connect, and Why You Break Apart

Choosing Lovers, an all-encompassing picture of romantic relationships in all their richness and complexity, provides answers to questions everyone considers: * Why of all the people in the world have I fallen in love with him/her? * Do I send out some signal that attracts one kind of lover and puts off others? * What are the warning signs of love in danger?